bow tie:

i'm a neck tie kind of guy, but i found this great place that sells incredible bow ties, the cordial churchman. mostly, i love how you can get a 1 3/4" club diamond bow tie in almost any fabric - i think that fat butterflies and pre-tied bow ties look cheap most of the time.

better to play it safe with the club or the skinny.

above: sid gillman, the picture that converted me to bow ties

below: the cordial churchman